Monday, 15 December 2014

NO FREEDOM WITHOUT LOVE (3)

The alarm clock must have sounded like a wounded lion roaring in regal garrulity into my ears. I had a mundane routine of obeying my alarm's chiming call every 5:00am, but I let it snooze severally today. Afterall, I'm the boss here, not the clock. I felt some heat well up on my chest. No, not the sultry air of the room. It rather was oozing exothermically and post coitally from my wife's head. Cupid heat. I had my arms wrapped securely around my Aminat as if a wannabe abductor was lurking in the dark shades of the room, waiting to whisk my woman away. Bizarre morning thoughts. Not therapeutic for my nerves.

Nasir and Fareedah ran into the room, an air of freedom and surrealism encapsulating their every move. "Allah be blessed," I muttered beneath my breath. These kids meant too much to me. I couldn't bare to sight any stifling suffering for them. Just as much as the cold thought was not appealing vis-a-vis my sweet Aminat. My wife. Or wasn't she?

"Good morning, daddy," the kids chorused sweetly. "Good morning jewels. Hope you guys dreamt of dad and mum." Aminat woke with a yawny start, grinning at our kids as she sat up. She planted a sweet good morning kiss on my lips. "Today is Saturday. Thank God it is. You guys hang around while I go fix us breakfast."

I watched her fair, slender figure wrapped in a bodice retreat into the terrace adjoining the master bedroom. Her beauty was primal. Even after the twins were born, she still looked very beautiful. Damn that ill theory of women-get-fatter-after-delivery. Even if it was a widely accepted postulate, my wife only got slimmer (not thinner, so you don't start thinking she went on excursion to a concentration camp) and more gorgeous. Beautiful woman, beautiful wife, beautiful mum, beautiful

Just as the kids began to flirt in their habitual way with my thick hair, the phone rang. Tunmise.

Ha! May God bless the gem of a man. A rare one. His story is one fat one. For the gods, you might like to pun. He took me in when I came to Ibadan from my native Zaria. My exodus from that town was what I considered my key to freedom. Just like the Israelites when they were led away from their long term captors by prophet Musa. I had company though. My Aminat. We eloped based on a sole advice I got from my friend and confidant in Zaria: Charity. The only Christian friend I had there, and the only good one. I recall clearly her enthusiasm and vista about Aminat and I. "Please, run away with Aminat and come back years later with a baby. I'm sure your uncle will understand . . ." All for love. I held the bull by the horn and made for its eye.

A few nairas frugally stored away in my petty, long term pocket had stacked up to quite a handful. All that mattered was Aminat's consent to elope with me, and that wasn't an issue at all. She sowed the seed in the first instance. If she was willing to be a stubborn Hauwa to her rich dad, I was more than prepared to be her Adamu. And off we went. Southwest bound.

I informed Tunmise of my brazen plans. I could feel his frigidity over the phone. His voice echoed his fears of my possible fainaigue, but left to me, I couldn't see the responsibility I had to an uncle who exorcised me like I was an Egyptian plague, nor to my in-laws who bore a chasm with me and thought me psychopathic. My responsibility was rather geared towards my nuclear fam. Even though we were worlds apart, I knew she loved me, and I loved her too. All of this I voiced to my Yoruba pal.

"You can come over to IB then," he had ruled finally. "I understand your stance and I promise I'll do the best I can to help." My happiness knew no fences. And the rest, like they say, is history. HIS story. The man who loved and found love. A man whose charity began outside, not at home. A man who found friends' love in outliers. In an Igbo friend in Zaria. In a Yoruba friend in Ibadan. In a lady who defied her quotidian comfort in preference of a pauper.

Tunmise's call on this Saturday had a new direction it would spearhead. "Man, I think you should go back to Zaria with your wife and kids. Your Uncle Bada needs you. Your in-laws do too. Things have to be properly and sensibly done, you know. Don't throw away the baby alongside the bath water. . ." In a flash, I recapped what Charity said years back, the fullness of her suggestion too. ". . . And come back years later with a baby. . ." Funny, there were two now. Twins. No wonder I had been feeling uneasy and insecure. I had managed to build an empire of wealth, comfort and love with Aminat in a faraway land, across hills and seas of ill interference. Still I failed to feel free. The reason wasn't so ambiguous anymore. The sequitur was obvious.

"Kabir, are you there?" His voice jerked me back to consciousness. "Sorry, Tunmi. Can we meet? We need to talk about what you said now. I'm in a fix. Wistful me."

Ara 'deinde
©October 2014

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